I Don’t Mean to Slut Shame….

Slutwalk Speaker to Hold Graphic, Inappropriate Sex Ed Talk for Teens Only at Lexington Park Library in Maryland.

As local mother, Georgia Kijesky, so eloquently stated in her remarks to the St. Mary’s County Commissioners on June 9, 2019, “The library’s back to their old tricks again, abusing our community resources by permitting and encouraging our library to be used for the sexual grooming and confusion of our community’s children.” This time the library is offering yet another perverse sex ed talk for teens only. Parents are not allowed in the room.

Link to this event for more details

The Straight Talk Sex-ed for Teens is taught by Bianca Palmisano, whose prefers the pronouns “they, them”. Ms. Palmisano was the 2013 Slutwalk Keynote Speaker. The event page describes the sex ed teacher this way: “

Bianca Palmisano (she/they) is a sex educator, medical consultant, and the owner of Intimate Health Consulting. She has been working to advance the sexual health field for almost a decade, specializing in training healthcare providers around issues of sexual health, as well as LGBT, sex worker, and sexual assault survivor competency. They are also a Masters of Nursing candidate at Johns Hopkins School of Nursing.

Palmisano is a Planned Parenthood certified sex educator, two-time presenter for the Philadelphia Transgender Health Conference and the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, and a planning committee member for DC’s Transgender Day of Remembrance.
They are also the primary author of “Safer Sex for Trans Bodies,” an outreach and education guide for the trans community sponsored by Whitman Walker Health and the Human Rights Campaign.

More information can be found here:

While it should come as no surprise to many of us who have been paying attention that a “sex educator” whose credentials include the Planned Parenthood the likes of Planned Parenthood and the Human Rights Campaign who have both been pushing perversion on youth for years, many unsuspecting parents and teens may be shocked to find out what kind of lessons may be in store at the local library.

The details for the event says, “This will be an informal workshop where your teen can ask ANY sexual health question you want and get an honest answer.” But how much honesty is too much honesty. Who will even moderate the information being shared with impressionable teens who are being taught by a person who seems to hold some extremely out of the mainstream views of sex and sexuality?

Bianca Palmisano, bills herself as a sex educator, but she is teaching about much more than safe sex and staying healthy. On Instagram, Bianca Palmisano, who goes by the handle @intimatehealthconsulting, describes herself as an intersectional feminist, genderqueer, with OCD, depression and anxiety.

She also posts about having body image issues and an eating disorder:

If her own list of affiliations and complications isn’t enough to discourage a parent from signing their teen up for this event at the taxpayer-funded library, then a look at what this sex educator and sex work advocate espouses online should.

Will she be promoting this?

From Ms. Palmisano’s Instagram

Ms. Palmisano must like talking about spankings because she posted about it more than once on her Instagram.

Will the teens be introduced to BDSM?

From Ms. Palmisano’s Instagram
She was handing these out last time she did “Small Town Sex Ed Tour”

Maybe Ms. Palmisano will introduce the teens to sex toys. She has been involved in the sex toy business.

From Ms. Palmisano’s Instagram
According to Bianca Palmisano’s Instagram she has extensive experience with sex toys. She says her “discerning vagina” has “judged” these 80+ sex toys she was giving away.

Will Ms. Palmisano bring up sex work?

Image from Ms. Palmisano’s Instagram
Bianca Palmisano dolled up for her Sexy Ed live stream on O School.

Ms. Palmisano had a live stream Sexy Ed talk on O School. O School is a sex ed website for the “underrepresented communities”. I guess there are communities that don’t have sex? At any rate the following images will inform you as to what you will find on their sex ed website for which Ms Bianca Palmisano has hosted a sex ed session.

Videos for Blowjob, Pussy, Threesomes, Oral, Squirting, Kink, Butt, Queer, and Vibrators are among the choices
Pull Down Menu from O School includes “Eating Pussy, Porn, Kinky, Anal Sex” options.

The following is from an ad placed in the Austin Chronicle’s Gay Place section promoting Bianca Palmisano’s program for “Queer Bomb” held in Austin, TX annually. Her listing for the event is as follows:

Beyond the Binary! Playing With Gender Genderqueer feminist sex educator/dancer/poet/consultant Bianca Palmisano leads a workshop on gender play. Sun., June 4, 6-8pm. Q Toys, 6800 Burnet Rd. $15. www.partywithqtoys.com.”

Bianca Palmisano held a “Beyond the Binary Gender Play Workshop at a Queer Bomb sponsored by a sex toy company

What kind of things does one find at the shop Ms. Bianca Palmisano was working with? A few images should suffice to explain:

#BodySafeSexToys ????? From the shop the sex ed teacher was working with.
A strap on penis from the shop Ms. Palmisano was working with.
BDSM items are sold at the store Ms. Palmisano was working with.

Apparently, Ms. Palmisano is experienced with the strap on dildo. In this Instagram post she describes a class she taught in which she engaged the class in a bit of role play involving a fireman teaching a dominatrix how to use a strap on on him….and they used “gender neutral pronouns” and brainstormed aftercare activities. I wonder if anal rejuvenation was on the discussion list. Maybe if the kids ask about strap ons they will get an “honest answer” from this sex ed teacher and perhaps a bit of role play.

The sex ed teacher posted this confusing and misleading post on her page. It contains a disturbing poem by a transgender “man” about having periods. Why would a sex ed teacher, a nursing student, and someone who clearly knows the difference between a male and a female post such a misleading piece of propaganda on her social media? MadMommaBear reviewed one of Ms. Palmisano’s sex ed videos and found it to be pretty informative as far as explaining anatomy. She clearly knows better than this post illustrates the differences between a man and a woman. What is concerning is that propagandizing, politics and an agenda may be inserted into the sex education that is being offered at the public library.

Should someone this confused about biology be teaching sex ed at all?

When Ms. Palmisano is not educating people about all types of sex stuff she does other things out of her house? Apparently teaching pelvic and breast exams? I am afraid to even ask what that entails.

Ms. Palmisano seems to be of the belief that the whole buffet should be laid out before impressionable teens, that is evident when she responded to concerns by a parent a couple years ago when she held a similar course, Small Town Sex Ed Tour at the library. Ironically, Ms. Palmisano claims to be very happy in her life choices and with her sexuality in this video, but her posts online paint a different picture.

From Bianca Palmisano’s Instagram
Ms. Palmisano praised Scarleteen on an Instagram post.

Scarleteen promotes the book S.E.X: The Scarleteen book. This book includes sections on porn, fetishes, kink, transgender bending ideology, homosexuality, fisting, anal sex and it even uses a Kinsey chart in one of its chapters to lead youth to question their sexuality and gender.

Apparently, Ms. Palmisano is under the misguided notion that people in small towns need her help teaching their kids about sex or more than likely she believes her values should be reflected in teaching about sex. People have been doing it for years without the need of help from sex educators who teach kink, porn, anal play, gender bending, etc at the library. The Lexington Park Library doesn’t need any help queering kids or grooming children. MadMommaBear has written about this sneaky, creepy library before.

The sex ed video that Ms. Palmisano shared was probably tame considering all the criticism she was under regarding her sex ed class for teens only at the library, but even so there were a few issues MadMommaBear took with the lesson. At the 15 minute mark she mentions anal stimulation of the prostate and says it feels “kind of nice” while talking about prostate health. Prostate issues are pretty uncommon for teens. At the 36 minute mark she mentions lubes for sex toys. Do teens really need to be taught about sex toys? At the 50 minute mark she mentions that a doctor should not “shame you for not using a condom” and seems to be casually dismissive that sometimes people are careless. A sex educator should be driving safety home. She did mention abstaining at one point in the video as the sure fire way to prevent disease but said not to abstain for moral reasons. At the 51:29 mark she mentions transgender sex advice and support, planting this seed of confusion into young minds. At the 52:46 mark she mentions sex work support. She also discusses consent at length without mention of the legal age of consent in Maryland which is 16. Why then is a sex ed course of this nature even being open to youth below the age of consent? This should be frowned upon and prevented by leadership in this county if they had any. at the 56:24 minute mark the slideshow she is using shows an image of a dildo and a butt plug. Is this appropriate for teens?

A slide from Ms. Palmisano’s Sex Ed for Teens Slideshow

Unfortunately, leadership in this community fails to rise to the occasion and protect the young and impressionable youth among them. The library has turned into a sexual indoctrination center. You can read more about the ongoing perversion that is pervasive at this taxpayer-funded public library.

Taxpayers in St. Mary’s county should be appalled this is going on in the libraries. The library seems to have strayed far from its mission of literacy by allowing the use of the community rooms for the ideological and perverse crusades of the secular humanists that are bringing the perverse programming to Lexington Park Library.

Ms. Palmisano (right) with Samantha McGuire (left) American Atheist Field Director

Ms. McGuire, who is with the Southern Maryland Secular Humanists that has sponsored the drag queen story hour and the sex ed talk for teens at the library believes that the rights of secularists are “under attack” in this country. She was quoted by American Atheists as saying, “Our rights are under attack at the state and local levels, and it is more important than ever to build a network of activists and advocates that can push back against the theocracy creeping in to our democracy.”  How can anyone believe that secularists rights are under attack with neomorality movement advancing at speed of light in the USA? Ms. McGquire gave angry and condescending remarks at the July 9, 2019 St. Mary’s County Commissioners Meeting. Ms. McQuire’s angry rant begins at the 58 minute mark.

Ms. McQuire accused the community members who had concerns about the appropriateness of a drag queen which is an adult entertainer being introduced to children as “misinformed”. She did mention the Twitter feed of the drag queen, one Miss Stormy Vain. She must be familiar with the disgusting and perverse nature of his feed if she is familiar with it but she failed to mention his posts about porn, male genitalia, prostitution and more. More on this perverse drag queen Ms. McGuire was defending here (explicit warning- nudes), here, and here. How anyone can defend such a horrible choice for a children’s story time is beyond comprehension.

Ms. McGuire also had her fair share of misinformation for the public. She stated that the transgender community is at a higher risk of suicide, which is true. Then why promote gender confusion and LGB lifestyles to youth with stories that plant seeds of gender confusion and by introducing them to a man dressed as a woman who says he is a woman? Children are far too young to know what they are being told to accept wholesale without question as good and healthy. Ms. McGuire stated that members of the community were bigots for disagreeing with this program. She said they confused drag queens with transgender, but they had not. Many drag queens are gender fluid, queer, questioning or trans. In fact, even if the drag queen had been a straight man the seed of confusion is planted and that is what drag queen story hour is about as it states in its mission “to promote unabashedly queer role models”. Shouldn’t role models be healthy role models? A drag queen is not a good role model for children and the drag queen that Ms. McGuire’s group chose was an extremely poor choice. A man running a sexually oriented business from his home is not the ideal role model for any children. Ms. McGuire should apologize to the entire community, but especially the LGBTQ community on behalf of her organization for choosing such a poor role model for their youth. Or is this what the Godless atheists think is appropriate?

As Ms. McGuire so aptly pointed out in her angry rant, the library did not “sponsor” the event. It still bore the cost of security and the event was listed on their webpage and social media. Ms. McGuire states that if the library is not open to the entire community having any event there then they must close to community rooms to the entire community. This is an incredibly selfish demand to make because the secular humanist and LGBTQ organizations like PFLAG show no boundaries, caution or restraint when it comes to what is appropriate for children. The St. Mary’s County Library and County Commissioners should change the library policy to reflect that nobody can use the community rooms for private events in light of this revelation and ominous threat by the secular humanists to sue if they do not get their way. A public library in Texas recently had its policy changed by the city council as a result of a similar threat an they will no longer allow private use of the community rooms. At some point though you do have to stand up to these atheists as they will continue to come back and demand their values occupy all space while Christian values be silenced.

Ironically, Ms. McGuire told the commissioners that her free speech should not be “chilled” while suggesting that protesters should chill their free speech to prevent security costs at the library for her child sex grooming gangs to do their work. Ms. McGuire suggested that the local mother who brought all of the debauchery of this drag queen to the attention of the public had doxxed the drag queen by revealing his name and the content of his social media. Mrs. Sijesky did not dox anyone, she informed the public of the malfeasance of the sponsoring group, the library, the library board and the spineless and ineffectiveness of the county commissioners and the delegates who were supposed to address this situation. Mrs. Sijesky deserves a medal of honor for trying to warn the sleeping public about the threat that lurks at the public library, a place most of us have fond memories of and associate with being a safe place. It is no longer a safe place as progressive groups push their agendas in local libraries. Praise God for women like Mrs. Kijesky for sounding the alarm. With an abundance of programming available elsewhere and electronic access to books, wholesome families with traditional Christian values will have to part ways with the public library. The libraries should have to part with public funds.

ROAR LIKE A MAD MOMMA BEAR!!!! Here is what you can do:

Email the St. Mary’s Library Board of Trustees: smclboard@stmalib.org

Email the county commissioners: Diane.Gleissner@stmarysmd.com

Tweet the county commissioners: @StMarysCoGov

Facebook for St. Mary’s County Commissioners: https://www.facebook.com/StMarysCountyGovernment

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